Let it...be.

pass...
happen...
be.


Sometimes you get so caught up with trying to analyze something that wasn't meant to be or analyzing something that only existed in your own imagination. It's a sure waste of time especially if there are other things you rather be doing - reading an inspiring book, pouring your heart out on a blog, or just simply dancing.


Most things in life are uncontrollable. That includes attraction, emotions, and the biggest factor of all, timing. You find yourself wondering why everyone else is attracted to him/her, but you're not. You find yourself avoiding him/her in every way but the emotions continue to run strong. You find yourself that special someone but s/he just isn't quite ready.


These factors are out of one's control, so instead of being angry and frustrated at yourself, accept it.


One of the greatest things about yoga is that it trained me to "let things be."

I still think about him everyday...it's okay...

I miss his warmth and the way his back feels when I hug him...it's okay...

I look around the busy streets of NYC in hopes to find a glimpse of him...it's okay.



But what's not okay is when I'm about to embark on a fun filled date and all I can think of...is him.
Weeks and weeks booked full of activities in an effort to minimize the distractions I've been expecting. For the most part it works! Activities work!