Just as nothing in life is fair...good people get sick, smart liars dodge consequences, and innocent people locked behind bars. Love will never be fair.
There will always be something one can give where the other is not capable of giving and there will always be something one can take and the other cannot.
Two different educational backgrounds, cultures, tolerance levels, financial situations, interpretation of words...make up two very different souls. Even with the same genetic composition, we come to different perceptions, conclusions and emotional reactions. There seems to be no control over it. And on top of that there seems to be no true measurement of love.
If we can first understand and accept that our love for each other will always be imbalanced, we'll end up being okay. The trick is, just don't let it tip over!!! Nevertheless, I still truly believe that a healthy relationship will result with the mutual understanding that one should give love in different colors, shapes and sizes but expect nothing in return. Is that fair?
